Feeling the poetry of a hard moment in your life; the unexpected glorious feeling of "letting it all out," or expressing yourself when you most need to; not holding back; being honest with yourself about your troubles and pains
Taking pleasure in pain; necessary wallowing in your distress; complaining or being overly self-indulgent; expecting others to take on your pain as their own; the desire to be rescued; enjoying playing the victim; OR, holding back emotions that you need to let out
If you are in the midst of something difficult, how are you expressing yourself? What relationship do you have to your pain, be it from past events or a current event? ... Are you using your pain to gain favors from others, or are you gracefully facing it, feeling it fully, and transcending it like the badass you are?